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25 October 2007

Misplaced Confidence

A few days ago, Husband agreed to pick up an evening shift at his second job. When he came home after his day job, he made a beeline for the bedroom to change clothes. By the time I made it back to the bedroom, he'd nearly entirely stripped.

- I should go to work like this, huh?

- Um. In your boxers? No.

- No? I guess you're right.

- Yeah, Husband. I think I'm right.

- It wouldn't really be fair to the female customers, after all.

- What do you mean?

- Well, if I went to work in my boxers it would be as if I were cooking a juicy steak and when someone mentioned that it looked delicious, I said "here, come closer, I'll let you smell it, but no tasting."

- Oh, I see. So you'd show up to work in your underwear and the women would be clawing at you and you'd have to say "Ladies, ladies, I'm taken."

- Precisely.

15 October 2007

Little By Little

Thankfully, life is still slowing down around here. This weekend wasn't busy at all and it left Husband and I with time to spend on ourselves, something which has been in short supply around these parts lately. On Saturday, Husband went to a football game with my father and my cousins. They seemed to enjoy it, in part because their team won which was in stark contrast to the baseball game Husband went to with my dad last weekend. Apparently, the football game made up for everything that went awry during that pitiful baseball game. While Husband was at the game, my mother and Sister and I went out to the Huntington Gardens and the Norton Simon Museum. The gardens are possibly the most beautiful gardens in the world and I love them every time we go. When my sisters and I were kids, my parents took us to the Huntington and took pictures of us running around in the vast expanses of grass, goofing off near the fountain, and standing next to statues. I look forward to repeating those times with my own children. Anyway, Mom wanted to explore a plant sale so Sister and I toured the gardens without her. We only went to the Rose Garden, the Children's Garden, and the Japanese Garden but I got plenty of good photographs and neither of us had seen the Children's Garden before, so a good time was had by all. Then we helped Mom carry a couple potted plants back to the car =) The museum was alot of fun as well.

On Sunday morning, Husband and I drove back to my parents' house for breakfast. After breakfast, we reviewed escrow instructions together and saw Sister off to her mid-day coffee date with her boyfriend. And then? That was it. We walked to the house we're buying, looked around and got excited, and then we drove home. We spent the afternoon cleaning - washing dishes, shredding papers, the like - and then we went to the park and walked around. It was a nice date, something we've not done in awhile, and it was great to just walk and talk and flirt.

Despite things slowing down in our lives, alot is changing as well. We are trying to pack things up to move and keep the area reasonably clean at the same time. I think that everyone who has ever moved can agree with us that this? Is an impossible feat. Part of the problem is, well, me. I am one of those people who is constantly in the middle of fifteen books and who always has at least a dozen small projects going on at once. And G-d save the soul who tampers with the location of a book or a project. It has been exceedingly difficult for me to pack these things up and maintain my sense of sanity at the same time. I know they will be unpacked shortly but suddenly it will occure to me at 10pm that I just don't remember the name of a character in some obscure book and it takes alot of willpower to not tear open boxes looking for that one book. It helps that I know that once I did find the book, I would forget what I was looking for in the first place. Anyway, suffice to say that I have been a hinderance =P

11 October 2007

A month? Already?

It has been over a month since I've had the time or energy to post here or comment elsewhere and quite a bit has happened over the past few weeks. For one, Husband and I re-entered escrow with the house across the street from the house that fell through. We also adopted a kitten I named Anastacia. As of right now, a relative is housing the kitten until we have moved into the house, so we don't know how Anastacia will get along with our current cuddle-monkey cat, Sebastian. There have also been two significant deaths in my family - one relative each from my mother and my father's families. In fact, while my mother flew to Chicago for one funeral, my father and I flew to Seattle for the other. They were held on the same day.

Outside of this, that which has occurred has kept Husband and I busy, but is not really worth writing about. I spent a few days watching Husband's nieces and we went to the LA County Fair with his sister and her family. We also witnessed Husband's brother's graduation; he is now a police officer and thus fully capable of wrangling free goods out of any doughtnut shop along his beat. I actually do not know if he has a beat or what a beat really is, but it sounded good. Husband and I also helped his aunt move into a place which is decidedly closer to where we live (and will soon live) than her old home was. She will also save a fortune on transportation to and from work because now she lives so far away from work that she has to take the train and her company? Pays for the train tickets. So her commute is less because there is no traffic and her transportation is virtually free. How cool is that? There was the day of Husband's nephew turning four years old as well, and several days that we spent over at my parents' home when he worked outside with my dad and I chatted with my mom. And that? I think that about sums it up. Also, my parents celebrated their anniversary recently, we visited with Husband's cousin who visited from out of town, and we discovered that a close relative of Husband was diagnosed with diabetes which can, luckily, be controlled by diet.

In the month prior to that, my mother and I traveled to Illinois to celebrate the 100th birthday of my great-grandmother's sister. She passed away shortly thereafter, and so I think my mother and I were both pleased to have had the opportunity to visit with her one last time while she was alive. While in Illinois, we also devoted a day to walking around the Chicago Botanical Gardens, which were breathtaking. I cannot find the postcards I bought there to prove it, though, so Husband is just taking my word on that! Also, we celebrated my birthday and the birthdays of both of my sisters, and we found out that my half-brother will be performing a foreign exchange program wherein he leaves his home country and comes to live with my parents for the spring semester of this year. That should be alot of fun and I am looking forward to seeing him again.

This blog has always been a place for me to talk about my life today, right here and right now, so that I do not forget alot of what happens. I figure these are some of the most important times of my life as they are setting up my future, and I never want to forget them. It has taken me completely by surprise, however, to find that I rarely have the time to update. I will definitely start to focus on that more!

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